Man, I am exhausted. I’m under a few key deadlines and as I type, my left shoulder is tightening up “into a ball.” I have learned that, when this happens, I need to make a few...Read More
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From the Desk of Ayodele – January 2023 Edition
Happy New Year! Welcome to 2023! As we are nearing the end of the first month of 2023, how are you? Did you set any goals for the first month of the year? How’s your progress?...Read More
From the Desk of Ayodele – Nov 2022
“If you’re gonna lead men, you got to know them.” Mike Tomlin, Head Coach of the Pittsburg Stealers Mike Tomlin spoke the words above on an episode of The Pivot podcast. During the episode, he shared...Read More
Conflict Mitigation and Peacebuilding for Black Male Educators
Black male educators play an important role in inspiring and preparing students to learn about global or local issues and take action against them. Conflict mitigation and peace building provide opportunities for students to practice tolerance...Read More
Emotional Literacy in Schools
Success in education looks different all over the world. It’s goal oriented, so the manner of teaching children to read, write, or do math may be different. But at its heart, education is intended to build...Read More
Improving How People Work Together: Developing Systems to Support Black Male Educators
Diverse and inclusive workforces in education are essential to ensuring that students have a quality educational experience. Unfortunately, one of the biggest challenges to this goal is the shortage of Black educators. Despite students of color...Read More
Imposter Syndrome Among Black Men
Imposter syndrome can be loosely defined as doubting your abilities and feeling like a fraud. This is often how I feel amongst groups of Black men I don’t know so well. You might think this is...Read More
From the Desk of Ayodele – Aug 2022
As Summer 2022 begins to come to a close, I am excited that cooler temperatures are on the way and the BMEsTalk Incubator is set to launch. Our Incubator is a 10-month facilitative leadership certificate program,...Read More
Men Can Re-Learn New Rituals and Practices to Normalize Showing Love
For women, saying “I love you” to friends and family comes naturally – and at times, too easily. For men, outside of a romantic or sexual relationship, those words may feel impossible to say. Whether it’s...Read More
Are Black Male Educators Spending Too Much Time with Students?
According to a recent survey from DonorsChoose, Black male teachers spend more time mentoring and counseling students than teachers of any other demographic. This same trend emerged with tutoring students outside of class. More students are...Read More